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What's doing at Oy Vey, April-May

Door Tori Egherman

What’s going on at Oy Vey? Discussions, singing, ritual, and remembrance events in Amsterdam.

Dear readers,

Honestly you all, this has been a hard time for me. My heart has been through the wringer, and I am filled with grief. I am ready to say kaddish for the world we lost, the paths untaken, the peace unmade. It’s a good thing for me that Oy Vey is adding a regular Kaddish Club to the agenda. 

One of the benefits of being a life-long pessimist, is that even as I grieve the world we lost, I dream of what can be. I believe wholeheartedly that we can repair this broken world we inherited. No effort is too small. Importantly, don’t forget to forget your perfect offering

In the words of storyteller Shonaleigh’s bubbe:

“When the world is crying, it doesn’t need more tears. It needs a handkerchief.”

Love and Peace,

 Tori


Upcoming events

16 April: An Evening with B’Tselem: Ethnic Cleansing in the West Bank

Up for a thought-provoking discussion that we absolutely need to have? Join Oy Vey 16 april at 19.30 when we welcome Dr. Yoav Shemer-Kunz, EU Advocacy Lead of the Israeli human rights group  B’Tselem.  For more information:

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20 April, 19.30: The 21st edition of  the Joint Israeli-Palestinian Memorial organized by Combatants for Peace will be live streamed at Makom on April 20:

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Singing together lights up our souls, which is just one reason why you should join us 2 may for Singing Shtetl. Don’t worry if you’ve been told that you can’t sing. You can. As my sister says: “Sing loud enough and everyone thinks you have a great voice.”

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3 may, 14.00: Join us for our first Kaddish Club: a  monthly gathering where we share the names of those we are grieving, where we are in our grief journey, sit with a little poetry or teaching, and recite the Kaddish together.

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Makom Amsterdam will open its doors on Sunday, May 3 at 16.30 for the Open Jewish Houses project. More here:

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For the third time, Oy Vey and Kriterion will be jointly hosting a remembrance ritual, films, and discussions on May 4 and 5. Find out more: 

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It’s been about one-year since Rabbi Shefa Gold visited us in Amsterdam. And now, we are welcoming her back. She will be leading a workshop on the magic of the psalms. Join us! 19 May, 18.30 

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From the Community

21 april: Amsterdam Yiddish Symposium 16 https://mbii.nl/ays16/

5 juni: Systemic work with (family)constellations for community healing: specifically for anyone with Jewish roots. Information in English available, send an email! https://www.the7thc.be/aanbod/familieopstellingen-voor-deelnemers-met-joodse-wortels

From Sharon Alexander: 75 year-old actively looking for a senior-friendly (and stair-free entry) apartment to rent in Amsterdam or Haarlem. Flexible start date. Also, can anyone recommend a good immigration attorney? WhatsApp or email her at +13103731477 dreyfalex@aol.com


Pets of Oy Vey

Black shaggy dog

God works in mysterious ways 

John Löwenhardt writes of the beloved Moshe, Rabbeinu:

“Here is the  purim  of our loyal  Moos aka Moshe-le aka Moshe Rabbeinu, who will soon be 13 dog years old, on his way to his 120th.  Moos is a Labradoodle.”

What a wise face! We wouldn’t want to anger him with a golden calf…🐾