Rites and Rituals
We are a people bound by time. We mark the division between different states, between rest and work, the mundane and the sacred, the full moon and the new moon, the time to reap and the time to sow. At Oy Vey, we engage in many of these rituals in our own way. We learn together. Mark time together. Celebrate together.
![Sharing challah on Dam Square in Amsterdam.](https://oyvey.nl/wp-content/uploads/2024/03/Shabbat-on-the-Dam-by-Stuart-Acker-Holt-600x600.webp)
Shabbat
Monthly,we try to get together at least once for a potluck Shabbat dinner at a community center, someone’s home, or even outside. We’ve had quiet discussions, singing and ritual, laughter and reflection. The way we mark the division between work and rest really depends on who joins us. It is a growing and evolving tradition that we create together. We hope to see you there.
![Tali with guitar and Lievnath looking on. The sun is set, but an orange glow remains at the horizon level. The sky is dark and filled with stars.](https://oyvey.nl/wp-content/uploads/2024/03/Havdalah-rites-and-rituals-600x600.webp)
Havdalah
What’s more magical than marking the division between a time of rest and a time of activity? Havdalah is a ceremony that makes separation sacred. We mark the time with song, meditation, lighting the polytheistic candle and fragrant herbs. Whether you are new to Havdalah or celebrate it every week, you are welcome to join us.
![Our very own Purim Queen, Mx Bag performing the Book of Esther in a blue wig, purple gown, and clown makeup.](https://oyvey.nl/wp-content/uploads/2024/03/Purim-Queen-by-Stuart-Acker-Holt-600x600.webp)
Holidays
As our community grows. we are getting better at marking Jewish events throughout the year. Keep your eyes open for the Oy Vey version of Jewish holidays such as Rosh Hashanah, Passover, Purim, and Hanukkah. And if you are worried if you are Jewish enough to participate, the answer is most likely YES.